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Writer: Arnall Family Foundation
Arnall Family Foundation
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My Rent Is Late





On August 6, my landlord sent me a text letting me know that he hadn’t received my rent. It was due on the first of the month. My lease is a basic form that Dale, my landlord, probably got online. I realize now that I haven’t even read the most recent update that he slid under my door a couple of years ago. According to the document I have there is a grace period. Any rent payment received after the fifth of the month incurs a $30 late fee. By the seventh, he could begin eviction proceedings. This is generous.


Dale isn’t going to file an eviction and kick me out. My situation was resolved in a couple of weeks. He didn’t even charge me the late fee, but that’s beside the point. As a renter I have few protections under Oklahoma’s Landlord and Tenant laws.


Why was my rent late? That’s a great question and one I worked to get to the bottom of myself. I have a good job, and I live well within my means. While most people spend between 30-40 percent of their gross income on rent or a mortgage, I’m fortunate that my very tiny studio apartment keeps me below that threshold. In fact, until I got the text from Dale, I thought that I had already paid rent on time as usual.


My bank has a bill pay feature that automatically issues a check from my account and mails it to Dale so that it arrives before the first each month. In late July, I checked my banking app, and it showed that the funds had been taken from my account on July 24. Why was it still showing a status of “on its way” 13 days later is anyone’s guess. The bank says that the check is likely lost in the mail, but there is no tracking number, and I have no way of knowing where it could be. They quickly processed a stop payment order to get the money back to me. The funds were returned to my account within a week.


Waiting until the funds are returned and using bill pay again, made so that my rent didn’t make it to Dale until it was almost a full month late. Some landlords would have already filed an eviction at that point and, technically, my lease allows him to do so. My rent was late because of an unforeseen issue outside of my control, but as a tenant I have no legal protection. I can’t help but wonder what this same situation would mean for any of the half million households in the state of Oklahoma who are renters, like me?


The bank’s customer service rep seemed less concerned about the potential for eviction and tried to be helpful by suggesting that I simply show Dale the proof of payment in the app. A proof of payment for a payment never received might be something that could get an eviction case dismissed in court, but evictions become part of your credit report when they’re filed regardless of the case outcome. Unlike bankruptcy or some criminal charges that can be expunged, evictions remain part of your record for life.


Dale may be the exception to the rule here, but he’s not going to waste time and court resources to get a single month of rent from a long-term tenant, but many landlords do. Oklahoma Watch has reported extensively on evictions, including how Oklahoma’s eviction process is being used as a form of rent collection.


According to data from Eviction Lab, there were 17,000 evictions filed in Oklahoma County from August of 2024-August of 2025. During that time, 38% of all eviction claims were less than $1000, and 51% were less than the median monthly rent of $1,149 per month. Only 1% of eviction claims were for more than 6 months of the median rent.


Why does the law allow landlords to file thousands of cases each year that could probably be resolved with a simple conversation? Some corporate landlords use evictions so much that there are attorneys who seem to specialize in eviction cases even though having an attorney isn’t necessary to file. It’s not even expensive. The cost to file is $58 for cases less than $5,000. To make matters worse, filing fees and attorney fees are often passed along to the tenants who are typically least capable of being able to pay additional fees on top of their late rent.


Oklahoma also has one of the fastest eviction timelines in the US. The law lets landlords evict tenants for late rent much faster than for other debts. Just for comparison’s sake, let’s talk about foreclosure.


Depending on the loan, the bank can begin foreclosure proceedings after 90 to 120 days of non-payment. Once the bank files with the court, the homeowner has time to file a response. All told, in the state of Oklahoma if you stop paying your mortgage, you could still have a place to live for nearly six months before a court orders you to leave, and a foreclosure only remains on your credit report for 7 years. As a renter, if your landlord quits paying the mortgage and the property you’re living in goes into foreclosure, there are few protections written into the Oklahoma legal code. You aren’t even entitled to notice of the foreclosure proceedings.


The lack of protection for tenants needs attention. There are more tenants in Oklahoma than landlords, but the law tilts the scales for the few over the many. Any legislative efforts to slow the eviction timeline, make it more difficult to file, or provide tenants like me with any protections at all have lacked support from legislators or been vetoed by the governor.


So, why not just buy a house? For many, home ownership is out of reach. For me, it doesn’t make sense. Purchasing a home in the neighborhood where I rent would substantially increase my living expenses. While some people see home ownership as an investment, I see a long list of obligations I’d rather not be part of. I never want to have to mow a lawn, call a plumber, or worry about any of the appliances going out. I love my hundred-year-old building and am relieved that someone else maintains it.


Dale honestly deserves every cent I have paid in rent over the last 15 years. When I told him I was writing this and asked if I could use his name, he didn’t even ask if he could read it first. He’s one of the good ones. Even though I consider Dale to be the best landlord in OKC, I still think renters deserve better laws to protect them from bad actors.


There are programs to help renters, like the Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Right to Counsel program that helps tenants at risk for eviction in certain areas. The NSO Stay Housed Tenant Advocacy Center helps connect tenants with resources ranging from rental assistance to legal representation in addition to community outreach and education. These programs mostly focus on helping tenants stay housed and navigate the existing law, but we can do more.


I recently ran into Senator Julia Kirt at a community event and talked with her about her work in the legislature to give tenants more protection and asked her why this issue fails to make any traction. She said that landlords are well organized and tenants don’t have the same voice at the capitol. She said that she needed more renters to stand together and speak out for better protection under the law. I guess that’s why I wrote this piece about my late rent.

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